Meals Versus Drinks

"Meals require a table with a seating order and entail the restriction of movement. Thus a meal frames the gathering and effectively rules out certain simultaneous activities. The sharing of meal draws the boundaries of the symbolic and emotional existence of the family. Only certain very specific non-family members are permitted to cross these boundaries. In contrast drinks can be shared between a wider group of people. Drinks are for strangers, acquaintances, workmates and family. Meals are for family, close friends and honoured guests."

Mary Douglas - Deciphering A Meal 1972